Overcoming Discouragement

Do not let your hearts be troubled. Trust in God; trust also in me.

John 14:1

Discouragement can be so debilitating and can destroy our self confidence.  We can become unstable, afraid and under valued.

A past employer found enjoyment in discouraging me.  For him, it brought a strange kind of satisfaction.  For every discouraging comment I received from him, I would run back to my desk and write out five encouraging things about myself.  In those five things, I always gave God the glory for all those gifts.  This habit of writing down my list of encouragement was helpful when dealing with discouragement.

It is not necessarily wrong to say good things about yourself.  God's light and wisdom is in you.  He created you.  He planned you and He loves you.  When we make mistakes we should not be discouraged by them, but learn from our mistakes.  When others put us down we need to remember who we are in Christ.

Train yourself to think positive especially when discouragement comes.  Don't allow the enemy to win.  We are children of a King.  Despite the low emotions we go through at times, we are still His beloved children.  We should not be afraid what mere man can do to us!

Blessings!

Overcoming What Scares Us

Be A Woman of Prayer!

Continue steadfastly in prayer, being watchful in it with thanksgiving

Colossians 4:2

We sometimes look at prayer as a means of getting things for ourselves.  The biblical idea of prayer is that God's holiness, His purpose, and His wisdom might lead us through life.  Prayer is also a channel so that we may get to know God.   Prayer bring us into closer communion with Him. 

From my own experience, instead of my circumstances changing, I find that I began to change.  Prayer alters the circumstances through me.  Jesus, by the Spirit of God, always keeps us on top of our circumstances.  The good of praying gets us to know God and allows God to perform His will through us. 

We can pray for you!

Other resources:  Contentment and Peace

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Becoming a Woman of Success

"Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge Him and He shall direct your path."  Proverbs 3: 5-6

Fame and fortune defines worldly success.  We see examples of it all the time on the cover of magazines in the supermarket.  It seems like such a glamorous life and it can be enticing at times.  What I don't see in the wordly successes of life is peace, joy, love, contentment and eternal security which are available through the love of God. 

How do we establish this kind of success?  Every believer has been given abilities, talents and spiritual gifts.  These wonderful gifts that God has given enables each of us to do the things that God calls us to do.  At times we struggle to find areas of accomplishments in our lives.  Maybe these struggles are from our own earthly wants and desires and we forget to consult God for what He wants for us.

Search out how to be the kind of successful woman God had always intended for you to be.  Here are some helpful tips:

1.   Ask the Lord what His will is for your life.  You must make the decision to seek after Him first.

2.   Be obedient.  We cannot expect God to help us in life if we choose to disobey His principles and teachings.  We are to obey by God's guildlines when we are pursing our goals.

3.  We are not alone in our search for success.  The Holy Spirit is with us and will be our counselor and guide.  We first must submit to the Holy Spirits leading, direction, and empowerment of God's Spirit.

We must look at which kind of success we truly want for our lives - wordly or spiritual.  Measure your understanding against God's word.  Living a successful life God's way is truly the only one way we'll ever achieve true success.

Be blessed!

Other resources:  True Success

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Delight in Him

"But his delight is in the law of the LORD, and on his law he meditates day and night."

Psalm 1:2

 

People who delights in the word of God do not have to be reminded to read it, because they long for it.  The Bible contains treasures for those who are willing to allow the truth to penetrate their hearts.

Also check out Bible Encouragement.



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Peace

"The things which you learned and received and heard and saw in me, these do and the God of peace will be with you."  Philippians 4:9

 Reading:  Philippians 4:4-9

Learn - Are you pouring the teaching of God's work into my life?

Receive - Have you received God into my heart by faith?

Hear - Not just to hear with your ears, but apply it to our lives.

Saw - Have you asked God to give you spiritual discernment to know what is true (of God) and what is false?

Do - Are you making peace a continual practice?  Are you incorporating God's spiritual truths to our day to day lives.

Let's respond graciously in a peaceful manner.  When we practice this, we demonstrate the attitude of our Savior.

Woman of Virtue

Virtue is moral excellence. A virtue is a positive trait or quality deemed to be morally good and thus is valued as a foundation of principle and good moral being. Personal virtues are characteristics valued as promoting collective and individual greatness.

After reading the meaning of virtue, how can one not want to attain these qualities.  Qualities that God had intended for all of us to have.

• Moral excellence
• Positive trait
• Morally Good
• Valued
• Individual Greatness

If you study the traits of the women of the bible, you will see their ability to withstand opposition and to make wise decisions.  All these qualities are part of their virtue.  God wants his daughters to rise up and take a stand for Him.  Serve Him.  Believe in Him.

Let's learn from these amazing Godly women in the bible.  Let's not take our cues from the worldly women of today, but steer our ways to those who were great enough to mention in God's book.  Each of these women are meant to be a compass to point us to the true attitudes and actions that God had always intended for us to have.  Blessing to you my Sister!

Great Scripture References:
 - Proverbs 31:10-31
 - Book of Ruth
 - Book of Judges (Deborah)
 - Book of Judges (Jael)

Also see Women of Self Respect


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Your Self Worth and Negativity

“Stop determining your worth and value by what other people say. Be determined by what the Word of God says.”

- Joyce Meyer

There are some people who always see things in a negative light.  They complain or find things wrong in every situation.  These people lack mercy and they are quick with judgement of themselves and others.  Negativity only harms ourselves and those around us.  We need to protect ourselves and make a conscious effort to keep negativity away.  God wants us to build one another up, not tear each other down.

As Christian women, we should look at ourselves and others and situations in life as God would see them.  God is sovereign and loves people unconditionally.  What a dramatic effect we could make on people if we only followed the example of Jesus.  Let's make that difference today!

Verses:

"If ye have faith...nothing shall be impossible unto you." (Matthew 17:20).

 

"If God be for us, who can be against us?" (Romans 8:31)

 

"The kingdom of God is within you." (Luke 17:21).